The Man and Woman Relationship:
A New Center for the Universe

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This individualizing-unifying process is the one universal process of existence. To speak of “the nature of existence” or “the essence of reality,” to speak of “an order,” “a given,” or “a way of things,” is to speak of this process. This process is the metaphysical given of existence, of reality, or of creation. (Page 9)

The sexual moment of the man and woman relationship is the core of our every thought and action, our every communication and connection. It is the core of all our creations, from ourselves to our religious, philosophical, social, scientific, and political systems. It centers our artistic, productive, and business ventures. Everything we have or do is centered upon the sexual moment, which is every moment. This is to say that our creations are but products of our own sexual moment. Our lives are no different from our own sexual moment. (Pages 17-18)

A man cannot produce anything alone. A woman cannot reproduce anything alone. The whole man and woman producing-reproducing team survives together or not at all. Every momentary creation-sequential recreation that exists from a single thought to a coherent thought-system, from a single idea to an invention, business, or industry, from a single breath to an entire life is brought forth out of the man and woman relationship. The survival success of any manifestation of universe will depend on its sexual balance. No matter what task one is engaged in, or who fundamentally undertakes it, man and woman balance must exist in mind and heart for survival success to occur. The real key to creativity then is male and female balanced interchange. (Pages 46-47)

How is it then that a man and a woman can fuse consciousnesses, whereupon a man can penetrate to the existent essence of a woman and a woman can receive the existent essence of a man? How can they touch that other’s soul where their very creative or recreative urge lies? How can they stand in front of each other in total mind-body exposure where one’s very being is known by that other? How can they completely give their identity to the other and receive that identity from the other in that one universal moment of complete surrender/exposure, where a man and a woman are brought to their knees in their need for each other? What is the knowledge required for a fusion of consciousnesses and its subsequent dual rebirth into sexual consciousness? Isn’t it the knowledge of the man and woman relationship, the exact living-dying-reliving existent process of which we intimately are a part of as male and female? (Page 51)

We cannot let go of our innate belief in our own man and woman relationship or home or we will be lost. It is how we hold ourselves together in existence. It is the springboard for the next man and woman reproduction. We might say it is the springboard of this evolving universe. Through the man and woman relationship, the home, comes the next generation of children riding the apex of creation. Our children are the furthest extension of identification to date. Today, they contain within them the potential to actualize in consciousness the conception of their own sexual creation. In fact, it is this understanding that is now dawning upon mankind, through this coming generation of children. We are truly beginning to see that this universe is a sexually functioning universe and that we, with all other males and females from the atoms to the starts and all the space in between, are alive sexually, breathing in and out in our own unique man and woman relationships. (Page 56)

The answer to this “mystery” of unity lies in the fact that there isn’t any unity in and of itself alone. This is the great misunderstanding of the ages. Unity is only one part or parameter point, just as is individuality, in a two-way sequential process. The mistake the spiritualists make is in thinking of unity as the whole, sole, or real reality. The materialists also make that mistake, equating the material world of dimension/form as the sole reality. But equally so, we cannot know of a sole individuality without its relation to unity. (Pages 87-88)

To possess a right is to own something. If a person possesses a right to his life, he, in actually, owns/controls his life. If one possesses the right of worship, he owns his beliefs or controls his mind, or at least the opportunity to do so. If one possesses the right to pursue happiness, he owns that opportunity. A right is a right to own something. (Page 138)

In essence, the health and productivity of a relationship or society will reflect its people’s comprehension of self-other balance and ownership rights. When government oversteps its bounds and moves from protector of rights to provider of life’s needs, that relationship or society will lose its ability to produce its life’s needs. Provisional governments do not produce, they only take from one and give to another. In short, they become the criminal that protective governments endeavor to defend individuals from. The difference between the two governments is that protective government states that law shall not restrict the individual’s consent in a transaction (free trade) and provisional government states that law must restrict the individual’s consent in a transaction (forced trade). So, what shall be the purpose of government? (Pages 162-163)

Love is balance. We cannot know love until we first know the self-other balance as so revealed in the man and woman relationship. Obviously, we all have some sense of this as that is what we naturally comprise. But, then, we let our conceptualized self-other imbalances get in the way. Why don’t we let those go? Possibly because the conception we hold is the conception we hold of ourselves which goes right to the root of our identities. It is these misaligned identities that must be eliminated from our very existence. To do this requires a re-conception of one’s identity, a letting go of one conception and a bringing in of another, a restructuring of one’s very soul, if you will, to the male or female in relationship that one existently is. (Page 196)

In summary, it can be said: This structuring or rooting of each man or woman in his or her own universal man and woman relationship will bring forth a consciousness of that other part or sexed half, so that one may know and experience a connection with their sexual other at each moment through out one's life. (Page 197)
 

 

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