The
Romantic Ideal is a metaphysical conception one holds concerning
the nature of existence or essence of reality that states that
existence or reality is a sexually creative one, that male and
female are the component driving parts, and that through their
dividing-uniting interaction, creation
(birth-life-death-rebirth) continues to be brought forth. It is
an existential bearing one holds where one existently stands in
a sexual relationship with a sexual opposite in a
dividing-uniting- interaction together throughout eternity. In
short, it is a universal faith held in everlasting love between
oneself and one’s sexual opposite, also known as one’s other
half, sexual other, existent other, or soul mate. Let us then
know the Romantic Ideal as the state of being where one is in
everlasting love with his or her other half. (Page 4)
The Romantic Ideal—the state of being where one is in
everlasting love with his or her other half—has merit given the
fact that indeed “one is not without the other” and that “each
is needed for the other.” If we were not metaphysically embedded
in relationship, and if that interaction between the parts was
not individually distinct, male as to female, yet mutually
necessary, there would not be any sexual distinction or creation
of life. Since there is life, we may conclude that the sexual or
creative process of male and female, known as the existent
process of male and female individualization and unification or
just the Man and Woman Relationship, resides at its hub or
center. Upon this understanding we can set up a metaphysical
model that results in the Romantic Ideal and also look at other
metaphysical models and their results. (Page 16)
The basis of a family is a male and a female. Male and female
comprise the center of existence in the process of
formation-deformation-reformation. Family is that male and
female in the birth-life-death-rebirth continuum. Each of us is
born of family, our parents, from which we divide and in time
more towards our own family, uniting with a sexual opposite to
bring forth the next recreation of male and female, our
children, as we move towards the greater rest of death. Family
is nature’s way; it is primordial and eternal. (Page 58)
