The balance point of life is one of a giving-receiving
equality. This means that equal to what one gives or extends
out from oneself one receives into oneself. This equivalent
giving-receiving may be called balanced interchange. (Page 1)
There is a useful idea that accentuates mental balance. That
idea is accountability. Accountability is to mental balance
what ownership-by-earning is to physical balance—its
center. Accountability rests upon the reality that one is the
source point of his or her thoughts and ideas, that it is incumbent
upon oneself to form and hold one’s conception of identity
and reality. (Page 8)
Upon a conceptional self-other equality, initial giving of
one’s life to that other can occur resulting in equal
receiving which creates the balanced interchange that all life
resides in. Initial giving, one to another, is the spiritual
act that brings the two together allowing them to touch in
the spirit of what they are giving or creating. Subsequent
receiving, one from another, completes the action as both parts
receive unto themselves that which the other has given and
thus refuel each other to give again. (Page 12)
Both the male and the female have a creative requirement placed
on them through which their survival as a relationship depends.
It is incumbent upon the male to be able to secure the male
and female relationship in body, mind, and spirit. Likewise,
it is incumbent upon the female to be able to reproduce the
male and female relationship in body, mind, and spirit. Each
aspect requires their life’s effort or giving without
which neither can live. The male produces from female at birth
into individuality, but to do so is consumed by female at death
into unity. The female consumes male at death in unity only
to be consumed by her own reproduction at birth. Such is the
moment-by-moment creative interchange of the man and woman
relationship. (Page 17)
The key to successful living is to hold to the requirement
of value creation in all aspects of life. On the physical level
there is ownership-by-earning; on the mental level is accountability;
on the spiritual level is conceptual self–other balance
(love); and on the sexual level, male and female creation.
From these premises, one can at least possess survival potential,
encompassing production of consumables, innovation of ideas,
balanced self-other interchange, and creation of male and female
life itself without incurring the debt that can easily erase
one’s existence. (Page 20)
